oh wow...where do i begin? ok so ex-boyfriends really really suck. In my case, my boyfriend, out of nowhere, decided he wanted to break up with me. Naturally, i was devestated. He explained to me that he just wanted to be friends. just friends? that seemed impossible for me. i don't think he realizes exactly how much i cared about him. To him, our relationship was just something to do...to me, our relationship was real and i thought that i loved him. it's been hard to get through all of this because i obviously still care about him because of the fact that i never got any closure. i really want to hate him, hate what he did to me, and just despise seeing him everyday. But i can't do that because seeing him is still the best and worst part of my day. When i see him i feel like he's showing me something that i can't have.When my friends and family talk bad about him i feel offended and upset because he's a good guy...he really is. He truely wants to be friends with me but i can't see that happening. can anyone concur?